Informing a male that there are feelings floating around in a personal universe just for them is a complex and fragile procedure. The supplies for telling someone of these feeling vary depending upon the situation, however for this technique supplies include a love interest, a fictional or nonfictional stud, form of communication, and a friend for support.
Step one is finding a stud. A stud is person or character looked upon as someone that others strive to become. A male that knows where he is going in life, and could have any lady marry him in a heartbeat. The stud can be found in a book, a movie, personal experience, or any other dimension in life. A stud has to mean something on a personal level. Once the stud is chosen get to know him from the inside out. While doing this make sure the love interest knows about the stud. Tell the love interest to read the book, watch the movie, get to know the stud, etc. by bringing it up in casual conversation.
Step two is making sure the love interest knows about the stud. Suggest to the love interest reading the book or watching the movie that the stud is in, or tell him to get to know or research the stud in person by bringing the stud up in casual conversation. Bringing up the stud in casual conversation is simple. Ask the love interest if he has ever met the stud, watched the movie, read the book, etc. and wait for the response. If they have not, recommend it to them, and if they have move on to the next step.
Step three, tell the love interest what makes the stud a stud. Explain the characteristics and qualities of the stud that put him above all others. Get his opinion on how he feels about the stud by simply asking, “Is he a stud or what?” and see what the love interest has to say. He will most likely answer with a simple “yes”, so from there you move on to step four.
Step four is the climax of the process, the big shebang. After discussing the stud, relate a quality of the love interest to a quality of the stud. Give a couple examples of how the love interest is similar to the stud allowing the love interest to feel like a stud himself. As the love interest is feeling all high and mighty about himself just through in there that he in fact could be a stud. At this point he should know that there are those feelings floating around in a personal universe just for him, and as he is realizing what that means tell him that he is the new stud.
The final step in this process is letting the feelings go. Let out the words “Be my stud? Check yes or no.” and let him take it from there. He will then proceed to state his opinion on why he should or should not take up the offer in becoming the stud, but either way a task has been accomplished that many fail to conquer.
Do not make the process more difficult than need be but understand the complexity of the procedure and its fragileness. Follow the five steps as listed; find a stud, inform the love interest about the stud, explain how the stud became the stud, relate the qualities of the stud and love interest, and finally ask the love interest to become the new stud. Follow the five simple yet challenging steps and there is no way to fail. Whether the answer wanted is received or not be proud of the accomplishment at hand. Just because the current love interest does not accept the call of the stud does not mean that there will never be one who will. Good luck on informing that male love interest on how he is to be the future stud, and never give up the dream of having the stud.